With the Nicolai bounce behind it ("Now the energy is back"), Storefront NYC is ready for the Blogging MASSIVE about to take place next week featuring BLDGBLOG, City of Sound, Inhabitat, and Subtopia. A host of programs is planned to provide topophilic grist for the mill. I hear that the schedule is getting finely massaged into final form (here's the link again; check it for changes). It's a "cyberspace meets phyisical space"-kinda thing, filled with stellar folks. (Note the participation, in addition to the main cast of course, of our very own family members Quilian, Enrique, AP, and several other people we have featured before, and other friends of this site). So check out days upon days of a posting carnaval, discussions, border-wall demolition plans and maybe even a little masturbating (but, please, leave the marathon to us in SF!!).
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blog til your blue GM, BF, DH, JF, AP, +q, mcsmoke, and co.
and dont forget, the follow up to postopolis will be commentopolis...
respects the individuality of the other
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"Marriage is no prison. There is no limit to what you can achieve when married," she opines. Scott writes that the return of the individual to the nurturing marriage from the peaks he or she has travelled alone serves to elevate the marriage to new heights. The bottom line is, a marriage cannot succeed when couples are glued together for fear of losing each other or ruining the marriage. It is in separateness, in supporting each other for individual adventure that the marriage blossoms and grows. Is your wife dying to have a PhD in a field you think will not bring bread to the table? Let her have it. Is your husband contemplating tarting a salon business? That’s his joy. And when a partner is happy, thatFull Service in shanghai will have a trickle down effect on the marriage.
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