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Internship Gift?

I have been on an internship for 8 months, as it winds down I was thinking of getting the 3 principals each a gift (office of 15 people).  I have seen other posts on here that refer to this gesture as "brown nosing".  I do hope to be hired after my 5th year of school is over, but the gift is more a gesture of appreciation for the opportunity and a thank you for everything that I have learned.  

Is this appropriate?

If not, what is a good gift other than a sweet pen?

Thanks.

 
Jul 4, 16 1:10 am
A.I.

I think a well written non-generic 'thank you' email or letter would be more appropriate.

Jul 4, 16 4:06 am  · 
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archiwutm8

interning for 8 months? bloody hell, most I've seen were 6 months.

Jul 4, 16 4:24 am  · 
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LITS4FormZ

They should be getting you a gift...A nice lunch, gift card, etc. Second on the thank you note, that's all you should do. 

Jul 4, 16 4:41 am  · 
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b3tadine[sutures]

Nice scotch.

Jul 4, 16 7:56 pm  · 
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Flatfish

It is not appropriate business etiquette for you to give gifts to them upon your departure.  A hand-written note of thank you to each would be a nice gesture.

Gifts to employers or supervisors aren't appropriate in most situations.  An exception is if there is a tradition of holiday gift exchange in the firm.  Another is that it's always appropriate to bring a gift if you're invited to their home for a meal.  Otherwise it's best to stick with written expressions and skip the gifts.

Jul 4, 16 8:50 pm  · 
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bowling_ball

A nice hand written letter would go a long way and be appreciated more than any gift item you can afford.

Jul 4, 16 8:59 pm  · 
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Just a nice letter is all you need. Anything else is too much.

Alcohol is usually always welcome though. I'd love it if an intern got me gin.
Jul 4, 16 10:08 pm  · 
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For complex - or maybe simple - ethical and etiquette reasons you're not supposed to buy gifts for your boss(es). They pay you; spending that money on something that goes back to them is weird. A card with a thank you note saying you've had a valuable experience will be far better than any gift. Even booze.
Jul 5, 16 7:51 am  · 
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geezertect

For complex - or maybe simple - ethical and etiquette reasons you're not supposed to buy gifts for your boss(es). 

Unless maybe it's a holiday or something gift from the office as a whole, and not tied to a particular individual?

Jul 5, 16 8:38 am  · 
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Yes, exactly, geezer - as 5839 said above my post. When it's a group gift/gift exchange/hostess gift it's appropriate.

A former boss of mine had treatment for cancer. The employees pooled money and bought this boss a special relaxation gift as a celebration of the treatment being done and successful. That's appropriate. If ONE of us had done that, it wouldn't be; even though it would be heartfelt, it would be awkward for the boss.

Jul 5, 16 9:26 am  · 
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We usually give interns a gift when they leave. Also buy them lunch.

Sometimes we get gifts as well. Food usually, or once a set of plastic wine glasses that we have used quite a bit since.

I wouldn't overthink it. If the office is small and informal then why not? Cake for everyone is always a good one.
Jul 6, 16 6:11 am  · 
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Dangermouse

A nice, hand written note, and a good microbrew.  

Jul 6, 16 9:22 am  · 
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ERO33

Thank you everyone! Much appreciated.

Jul 19, 16 10:01 pm  · 
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