i know that this place is not the best place to write about this topic, but i need a place where i write what is inside my chest.
2 years ago I started studying architecture in a new country, it was online so for 1 year i didnt know ky classmates and beacuse of the overload homeworks i didnt had time to know other people outside, so this year was the worst year in my life, beacuse i have no friends and because i found out that i dont like architecture, i hated every second of it, i was depressed and stressed all the time in this year, asking my self why did i choose this major without knowing anything about it.
So i changed to political science, i love this major and in the last year i felt happy in every second of every class, so i think that i did the best choice that i changed the major, but what i didnt mention that i changed the whole university beacuse my old university doesnt offer political science.
I had only one friend from my previos university so he invited me to come and see the faculty beacuse when i studied there it was online so i didnt come to campus, i loved the university and started to come alot, 3 times a week, i had alot of friends there who was my classmates, and i noticed 2 things.
1- I hate everything they are working on in architecture, everything from sketching to modelling to autocad and 3d max and even the long hours they spent
2- i loved my old university and loved my old classmates more than my new classmates, even my girlfriend is my architecture classmate.
So everytime i go there i feel regret that i changed the major and the university, even so that i know that i hate architecture, but i love the people there so im in a really stupid delimma, i know this reason is stupid beacuse after 4 years i will not see those classmates again so they are not real friends, but even with that litrecy i feel regret
How can i go beyond this delimma?
Non Sequitur
Jul 21, 22 12:36 am
does not sound like a dilemma to me and looks like you already know the answer. Shit is complicated buts it’s only one year. Don’t waste time with what could be and just do what makes you happy and challenged. Don’t get bogged down by needless regret
sameolddoctor
Jul 21, 22 1:22 am
You can still do Political Science and keep your architecture friends and girlfriend. We are a pretty social bunch. Dont choose your career based on a perceived lifestyle
i know that this place is not the best place to write about this topic, but i need a place where i write what is inside my chest.
2 years ago I started studying architecture in a new country, it was online so for 1 year i didnt know ky classmates and beacuse of the overload homeworks i didnt had time to know other people outside, so this year was the worst year in my life, beacuse i have no friends and because i found out that i dont like architecture, i hated every second of it, i was depressed and stressed all the time in this year, asking my self why did i choose this major without knowing anything about it.
So i changed to political science, i love this major and in the last year i felt happy in every second of every class, so i think that i did the best choice that i changed the major, but what i didnt mention that i changed the whole university beacuse my old university doesnt offer political science.
I had only one friend from my previos university so he invited me to come and see the faculty beacuse when i studied there it was online so i didnt come to campus, i loved the university and started to come alot, 3 times a week, i had alot of friends there who was my classmates, and i noticed 2 things.
1- I hate everything they are working on in architecture, everything from sketching to modelling to autocad and 3d max and even the long hours they spent
2- i loved my old university and loved my old classmates more than my new classmates, even my girlfriend is my architecture classmate.
So everytime i go there i feel regret that i changed the major and the university, even so that i know that i hate architecture, but i love the people there so im in a really stupid delimma, i know this reason is stupid beacuse after 4 years i will not see those classmates again so they are not real friends, but even with that litrecy i feel regret
How can i go beyond this delimma?
does not sound like a dilemma to me and looks like you already know the answer. Shit is complicated buts it’s only one year. Don’t waste time with what could be and just do what makes you happy and challenged. Don’t get bogged down by needless regret
You can still do Political Science and keep your architecture friends and girlfriend. We are a pretty social bunch. Dont choose your career based on a perceived lifestyle